Secrets of Niddah
A 12-day immersion - the cycle as the feminine path to wholeness.
July 20-31
Do you ever feel
disconnected during niddah – not only from your husband, but from yourself, Hashem, or life itself?
Do you count the days
longing for closeness, but not really understanding what this time is meant to be?
Have you ever wondered
why the most intimate relationship in your life is marked by recurring separation?
Do you sense
that there’s something more to this experience…
but no one ever gave you the words for it?
Secrets of Niddah is not about the halachic side of things.
There’s plenty of that already.
This is a spiritual initiation.
An invitation to remember what your body already knows.
That niddah is not punishment or distance.
It’s the sacred unfolding of return itself.
And Taharah isn’t just a return to your husband —
it’s a return to your own wholeness.
This journey is for the woman who is ready to:
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Reclaim her experience of niddah from shame, silence, or confusion
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Learn the spiritual and emotional meaning of separation as a path toward healing
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Honor her body as a vessel of divine wisdom and transformation
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Bring mystical Torah into lived, embodied practice
FULL BODY YES!
Why now?
Because niddah isn’t just a personal cycle — it’s a collective one.
The Nine Days leading to Tisha B’Av mirror the same arc.
Separation. Longing. Mourning. Becoming.
What if this wasn’t just a ritual to get through…
but a holy descent guiding you toward integration?
What is Secrets of Niddah?
A 12-day immersive experience that brings together:
- Embodied Torah
- Mystical insight
- Emotional integration
- The unspoken wisdom of the feminine cycle
Together, we’ll explore the full arc of the niddah journey:
Exile
- The hidden holiness in menstruation, grief, and shedding
- Why separation holds the seeds of reunion
- The exile of the Shechinah and how your body echoes this sacred mystery
Yearning
- The 7 clear days as preparation, reflection, and softening
- The inner longing that moves us toward healing and return
Return
- Mikvah as rebirth and spiritual intimacy — the crossing from hidden to revealed.
- The living experience of taharah as wholeness
Integration
- How your feminine body carries the ongoing cycle of exile and return.
- Living in harmony with your cycles, G‑d, and your deepest self
Testimonials
"The lasting impact learning the Secrets of Niddah had on me has transformed how I experience niddah. I've gone from avoiding it, and feeling lost and disconnected in it, to now embracing it, appreciating it, and being patient in it. Thank you Pessy for bringing this knowledge and power back to us! The shift in my perspective and the impact on my life is obvious!"
Y. G.
"I appreciate how Secrets of Niddah has an exquisite depth rooted in infinite Torah wisdom. Pessy also has a way of understanding the human and feminine experiences that resonates with and validates the individual."
Leora
You belong here if you…
Crave a deeper understanding of niddah beyond rules and dates
Feel emotionally or spiritually unsettled during that time of the month
Long to feel more connected to your femininity, your husband, and Hashem
Want to return home — to yourself, your cycle, and your soul
Here's what you can expect:
3 Live Classes
- July 21 - The Secrets of Niddah in the Cycle's Wisdom
- July 24 - The Deeper Process of Niddah and Feminine Healing
- July 28 - Anonymous Q&A Call
(Calls are on Zoom at 12pm ET and will also be recorded.
Additional Features:
- Guided audio activations (about 10-15 minutes) designed to deepen your process.
- Exclusive WhatsApp community for sisterhood and support.
- 3 months access to all recordings.
- Lifetime membership! Come back free every year.
Testimonials
"I was in complete denial every time it came to my period. Being Niddah made me so depressed. I was so disconnected from this mitzvah. Secrets of Niddah was absolutely life changing! Everything Pessy teaches is GOLD!
Now becoming Niddah is not something I hate. I now know what it truly holds for me. Pessy gives clear, mind-blowing information in a way that is practical and relatable. It will transform YOU. Guaranteed.
Avigail W.
"I wanted to personally thank you for your most unbelievably beautiful niddah class. I’ve been struggling for so many years and no information on understanding the beauty of it. I appreciate your bringing it to light."
-F. P.
Frequently Asked Questions
Who is the experience for?
Is this a halacha class?
Is it private? Do I have to share?
What exactly will this program cover?
Will I be able to keep up if I'm pressed for time?
Is there 1:1 support?
Testimonial:
"Secrets of Niddah was such as eye opening experience!
As much as I already learned to appreciate the parts of Niddah I knew about (by focusing on the benefits over the hard parts), this took it to a whole new level where I actually look forward to the gifts and depth it brings us each month!
It’s not finding the good despite the hard, it’s about living present in each phase and enjoying the gifts they have to offer! It was such a mind-shift!
Pessy brings her vast amount of knowledge (from an information/educational perspective as well as from Torah sources) , skill, and gentle way of explaining these sensitive topics in such a clear direct and approachable way.
If you’re on the fence, or think you’ve mastered it by now - join Secrets of Niddah - it will be inspiring and life changing."
Chanie
Hi! I’m Pessy,
a certified fertility awareness educator, kallah teacher, and cycle coach.
For many years I struggled with Taharas Hamishpacha. But as I learned more about my cycle, and embodied more of my cyclical essence and rhythm, things began to change. I learned so much about the inherent wisdom of our bodies and how the Torah truly is in alignment with our highest, spiritual experience of this life. I share this wisdom so that more women can reclaim this sacred practice and truly feel embodied and aligned with their greatest power.
